Dominique Strauss-Kahn. Arnold Schwarzenegger. Tiger Woods.
The list is much longer. But the subject is the same.
It is powerful men misbehaving sexually then trying to prevent the full story from being known.
The charges against Strauss-Kahn are new. This immediacy often delays all the facts from emerging. It may be expected that his possible trial would expose many elements that are now unknown. A plea bargain would probably prevent us from learning most of the details. We'll see.
Governor Arnold first attempted to withhold the cause of his marital breakup. Then the name of his son's mother. The media went to work and prevented the secrets from continuing.(Thank goodness for the Fourth Estate.) While Arnold didn't commit a crime, he certainly made an error in judgment, if not morals. It remains to be seen whether the tarnish on his reputation will be permanent.I believe much will depend on whether more information comes to light in the coming days.
Super Golfer Woods continues to suffer. His marriage ended and cost him hundreds of millions of dollars. Sponsors went away and so did his championship form. He is now injured and one can speculate on whether he will ever return to dominating the sport.
While Strauss-Kahn and Schwarsenegger are in the midst of their crises, Woods has passed his nadir. It is my opinion, however, that he did the most covering up. This is based on my experience serving for several years on the board of a non-profit domestic violence agency. The facts of Tiger's car accident and the trip to the hospital just didn't add up. Consider this:
-- He claimed to have had a major auto accident in his own driveway.
-- He claimed his wife had to break into the car to rescue him. But the vehicle was not on fire or underwater and the weather was not inclement. And it was at his house which is located in an upscale gated community with 24-hour security (the same type of employees who would also help a distressed motorist -- or even jump start their car).
-- He had called his attorney prior to the accident.
-- It was late on Thanksgiving night. Where was he going?
My thoughts immediately made a different series of connections.
-- Mr. and Mrs. Woods were fighting, probably over the exposure of his affairs.
-- The fight involved violence. Maybe Mrs. woods clubbed Tiger with a 9-iron. Regardless, he became seriously injured and required medical attention.
-- A trip to the hospital emergency room -- especially after Midnight on Thanksgiving -- would require the medical staff to ask what caused the injury. If he were suffering from a blow to the head, they would have immediately been suspicious if the story were not convincing.
-- If suspicions were great enough then they would have called the police to investigate.
-- If the police investigated and found evidence of domestic violence then they would have had the State authorities immediately remove the children from the house.
-- When Tiger became injured someone in the house called their attorney for advice. He probably suggested that the world's best golfer would be better wrecking his own car than losing his children in the middle of the night.
This speculation will probably never be proven. Mr. and Mrs. Woods have done a good job of keeping mum on the details of that night. They have stuck to their story and the media has been unable to pierce their veil.
I am not a person who embraces conspiracy theories. The Kennedy assassination, Clinton/Lewinsky, and the death of Princess Diana hold no long-term interest for me. But I do believe that Tiger Woods is both a sexual predator and a victim of domestic violence.
I also believe that we need to know more information about the Strauss-Kahn scandal. At this point we don't know if he was drunk, overly medicated, suffering from jet lag, or otherwise mentally impaired. If any of this is true, it certainly is no excuse for attempted rape. It does, however, offer perspective which is critically needed for any of us to form our own judgments about the misdeeds of the powerful.
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